Solomon had hundreds of wives.
Elders are to be the husband of one wife.
The Coming King
Why are people surprised that Jesus never married? Of course He didn’t. Who can God wed? Wouldn’t we wonder “what made her worthy to marry God Incarnate”? What about their children? Would they be called “children of God”? Aren’t we already His children?
It would take the focus off of Christ and His Father.
Of course Jesus never married. His Bride wasn’t ready.